在她出现之前,他或她仿佛有很多原则,有很多底线,对另一半有很多期望。
Before she appeared, he or she seemed to have many principles, many bottom lines and many expectations for the other half.
你的父母会希望你快点结婚,可能是因为他们觉得你到了一定的年龄就应该结婚,也许他们更在乎的是面子,觉得你不结婚会让他们很没面子,也可能他们怕你将来太孤单。
Your parents will want you to get married soon, maybe because they think you should get married when you reach a certain age, maybe they care more about face, think that you will make them lose face if you don't get married, or maybe they are afraid that you will be too lonely in the future.
如果在你遇到困难需要帮助时,有一个人独立地来到你身边,与你一起面对,并以任何方式帮助你,那么这个人当然不仅仅是热心,而是把你放在心上。
If you need help when you are in trouble, there is a person who comes to you independently, faces with you and helps you in any way, then of course, this person is not only enthusiastic, but takes you to heart.
这不是要假装这段关系从未存在过,而是要从心里选择放手,不为那个人感到悲伤或愤怒。
This is not to pretend that this relationship never existed, but to choose to let go from the heart and not feel sad or angry for that person.
即使有了松动,也只希望是自己的祭品,而不是被对方先打翻。
Even if there is looseness, I only hope it is my own sacrifice, rather than being knocked over by the other party first.
对方突然不再和你说话,既不回复你的信息,也不去找你,会让你怀疑他们在你心中的地位。
Suddenly, the other party stops talking to you, neither replying to your messages nor looking for you, which will make you doubt their position in your heart.
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, but takes you to heart. 这不是要假装这段关系从未存在过,而是要从心里选择放手,不为那个人感到悲伤或愤怒。 This is not to pretend that this relationship never existed,
don't get married, or maybe they are afraid that you will be too lonely in the future. 如果在你遇到困难需要帮助时,有一个人独立地来